Every society which has attempted to establish “equality” in family affairs has produced the same result?

Agreed, only thou to the extent that there is no "equality" I know what your think, but it isn't "equality", it just isn't. We have a perverse ideal of that makes it that no matter what there is no "equality" within most of our ual relatinoships. We to much top the scale on the importance of this in a relationship which gives unequal importance to how females and males treat it. So really, our limited grasp for "equality" is what causes it, not the "equality" per-say, because we don't have it yet. We don't have an equal relatinoship with what we feel and what we think, so reality doesn't have a chance..... so understand its this umption of equality thats hurting us because we have a very ignorant view of mans relationship to his society.